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Love Is A Verb

The Genesis of Love Is A Verb

Years ago I was invited to teach a segment at the Women’s program at Divine  Grace Commission Church UK. The theme was on love and after careful thought and prayer, I decided on a title I hadn’t heard before which is, ‘Love is a verb‘.  Love is such a big part of marriage, family and being a Christian, but many times it’s not practiced. The title was apt, because love is not about your words alone, it’s mainly about your corresponding actions. :)

Love is a verb

So, in your marriage, family relationships and acquaintances, ask yourself, do I live my life and react in a way that proves, love is a verb?

Do you know anyone who you could practice active selfless love on? Even in your business, if you want to be successful you have to learn to be a giver, which is also known as love in action – Proverbs 11:25.

Here’s a story that may bring you clarity about the saying, love is a verb.

Are You God’s Wife?

Author Unknown.
A little boy was standing before a shoe store, barefooted, peering through the window, and shivering with cold. A lady approached the boy and said, “My little fellow, why are you looking so earnestly in that window?””I was asking God to give me a pair of shoes,” was the boy’s reply.The lady took him by the hand and went into the store, and asked the clerk to get a half dozen pairs of socks for the boy. She then asked if he could give her a basin of water and a towel. He quickly brought them to her. She took the little fellow to the back part of the store and, removing her gloves, knelt down, washed his little feet, and dried them with a towel.By this time the clerk had returned with the socks. Placing a pair upon the boy’s feet, she then purchased him a pair of shoes, and tying up the remaining pairs of socks, gave them to him. She patted him on the head and said, “No doubt, my little fellow, you feel more comfortable now?”As she turned to go, the astonished lad caught her by the hand, and looking up in her face, with tears in his eyes, answered the question with these words: “Are you God’s wife?”

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Fun facts about Valentine’s Day

The article Fun facts about Valentine’s Day was written by Nina Spitzer.

Facts about love

Fun facts about Valentine's Day When did it all start?

There are various theories on the origin of Valentine’s Day, but the most popular dates back to the time of the Roman Empire during the reign of Claudius II, 270 A.D. Claudius didn’t want men to marry during wartime because he believed single men made better soldiers. Bishop Valentine went against his wishes and performed secret wedding ceremonies. For this, Valentine was jailed and then executed by order of the Emperor on Feb. 14. While in jail, he wrote a love note to the jailor’s daughter, signing it, “From your Valentine.” Sound familiar?

More Valentine’s Day-related history

•The ancient Romans celebrated the Feast of Lupercalia on Feb. 14 in honor of Juno, the queen of the Roman gods and goddesses. Juno was also the goddess of women and marriage.
•Many believe the X symbol became synonymous with the kiss in medieval times. People who couldn’t write their names signed in front of a witness with an X. The X was then kissed to show their sincerity.
•Girls of medieval times ate bizarre foods on St. Valentine’s Day to make them dream of their future spouse.
•In the Middle Ages, young men and women drew names from a bowl to see who would be their Valentine. They would wear this name pinned onto their sleeves for one week for everyone to see. This was the origin of the expression “to wear your heart on your sleeve.”
•In 1537, England’s King Henry VII officially declared Feb. 14 the holiday of St. Valentine’s Day.

Chocolate

•Casanova, well known as “The World’s Greatest Lover,” ate chocolate to make him virile.Fun facts about Valentine's Day
•Physicians of the 1800s commonly advised their patients to eat chocolate to calm their pining for lost love.
•Richard Cadbury produced the first box of chocolates for Valentine’s Day in the late 1800s.
•More than 35 million heart-shaped boxes of chocolate will be sold for Valentine’s Day.
•Over $1 billion worth of chocolate is purchased for Valentine’s Day in the U.S.

Flowers

•73 percent of people who buy flowers for Valentine’s Day are men, while only 27 percent are women.
•15 percent of U.S. women send themselves flowers on Valentine’s Day.

Roses

•The red rose was the favorite flower of Venus, the Roman goddess of love.
•Red roses are considered the flower of love because the color red stands for strong romantic feelings.
•189 million stems of roses are sold in the U.S. on Valentine’s Day.
•California produces 60 percent of American roses, but the greater number sold on Valentine’s Day in the U.S. are imported, mostly from South America.
•Approximately 110 million roses, mostly red, will be sold and delivered within the three-day Valentine’s Day time period.

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Fun facts about Valentine's Day Greeting Cards
  • Approximately 145 million valentines are sent in the U.S. each year according to estimates by the U.S. Greeting Card Association. That’s second only to Christmas with 1.6 billion units, and is followed by Mother’s Day with 133 million units.
  • Women purchase approximately 85 percent of all valentines.
  • Over 50 percent of all Valentine’s Day cards are purchased in the six days prior to the holiday, making Valentine’s Day a procrastinator’s delight.
  • Teachers will receive the most Valentine’s Day cards, followed by children, mothers, wives, sweethearts and pets.

And… More fun facts about Valentine’s Day

  • In addition to the U.S., Valentine’s Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, United Kingdom, France, Australia, Denmark and Italy.
  • The most fantastic gift of love is the Taj Mahal in India. It was built by Mughal Emperor Shahjahan as a memorial to his wife.
  • In the 1800s doctors commonly advised their heartbroken patients to eat chocolate, claiming it would sooth their pain. To this day, many women find comfort in a box of chocolates when dealing with heartbreak.
  • A love knot is a symbol of undying love, as its twisting loops have no beginning and no end. In the past, they were made of ribbon or drawn on paper to prove one’s eternal love.
  • Every Valentine’s Day, the Italian city of Verona, where Shakespeare’s lovers Romeo and Juliet lived, receives about 1,000 letters addressed to Juliet.
  • About 3 percent of pet owners will give Valentine’s Day gifts to their pets.
  • 220,000 is the average number of wedding proposals on Valentine’s Day each year.
  • In the U.S., 64 percent of men do not make plans in advance for a romantic Valentine’s Day with their sweethearts.

Share these fun facts about Valentine’s Day with a friend. Your sweetie might be especially interested in the last item. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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